PURPOSE After Domestic Violence

71. The Fiery Furnace: God in the Middle of the Trial

If you feel like you’re walking through fire right now—emotionally, legally, or spiritually—you’re not alone.
In this episode, we look at the story of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego in Daniel 3 and how God met them in the fire, not just after it.
Whether you’re facing a difficult custody battle, struggling with fear, or feeling overwhelmed by the weight of this season, there is comfort, strength, and truth waiting for you in the flames.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
Why God sometimes allows the fire but never abandons you in it
How to recognize the fourth man in the fire—Jesus, standing with you
Encouragement that you can come through this trial without the smell of smoke
Scriptural promises that speak directly to your current storm
Key Scriptures:
Daniel 3:13–27
Isaiah 43:2
Psalm 34:18
Hebrews 13:5
Joel 2:25
Romans 8:28
Psalm 66:10–12
This episode is for every woman who feels like she’s doing everything right and still facing fire. You’re not being punished—you’re being purified. And you are never, ever alone.
Connect with Me:
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70. From Victim to Victory: A New Way to Understand Your Journey

In this powerful episode of PURPOSE After DV, I’m putting the widely known Escalation of Violence Scale side-by-side with a tool I personally created: the Victim to Victory Scale, found in my POWER After DV Workbook.
The Escalation of Violence Scale helps us recognize the progressive nature of abuse—how it often starts subtly and grows more dangerous over time. But that’s only one side of the story. My Victim to Victory Scale offers a new, hope-filled perspective. It’s a visual tool to help you recognize where you are on your healing journey and where God is calling you to go next.
In this episode, we will:
Walk through the stages of the Escalation of Violence Scale
Introduce and explain each phase of the Victim to Victory Scale
Reflect on what healing and restoration look like in real life
Introduce a concept called "Re-Story"
Whether you’re still in survival mode or finally starting to dream again, this episode will give you a language—and a ladder—for moving upward in God’s strength.
Scripture Focus:📖 “He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.” – Psalm 40:2 (NIV)
Here is the link to the scales free pdf:
Escalation of Violence and my Victim to Victory Scales
Connect with Me:
Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com
Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/
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POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW
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69. My Role as a People Helper at the 2025 Called to Peace Retreat

In this follow-up episode, I switch hats and share my experience at the 2025 Called to Peace Survivor Healing Retreat as a people helper—attorney, author, and vendor.
While I came to support survivors with legal insight and healing resources, God had even more in store.
You’ll hear:
What it was like to offer support from the other side of the table
Golden nuggets from women hungry for both justice and Jesus
God's presence and His love for His daughters
If you’re a ministry leader, counselor, attorney, advocate, or just someone who wants to help survivors in meaningful ways, this episode will encourage and equip you.
Mentioned in this episode:
Called to Peace Ministries Training for People Helpers
Loads of Scripture verses to take with you to the Courtroom
Let’s keep the conversation going:Leave a review or tag me on social with your thoughts. And if you’re a fellow people helper—let’s connect!

68. My Role as a Participant at the 2025 Called to Peace Retreat

In this heartfelt episode, I share my personal journey as a survivor of domestic violence attending the 2025 Called to Peace Ministries Survivor Healing Retreat.
Set against the beautiful backdrop of Lake Junaluska, this retreat was a sacred space of safety, restoration, and powerful reminders that our Redeemer sees, hears, and heals.
I’ll walk you through moments of breakthrough, powerful teaching from keynote speaker Leslie Vernick, and the deeply personal ways God met me in worship, creativity, and community.
Whether you're early in your healing journey or walking alongside someone who is, I pray this episode brings hope, encouragement, and the gentle reminder that your healing matters—and it’s not over yet.
Mentioned in this episode:
Psalm 55:18 – He rescues me unharmed from the battle waged against me.
Called to Peace Ministries: www.calledtopeace.org
Leslie Vernick: www.leslievernick.com
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67. Adopted: In the Courtroom and the Kingdom

In this special episode, I’m putting on my attorney hat again for the first half of our conversation to walk you through step-parent adoption — what it means legally, how it works, and what families should know when walking this path. Then, we shift into a powerful spiritual truth: you, my sweet sister, have been adopted by God.
Whether you're navigating the legal system or simply searching for a place to belong, this episode is a reminder of your worth, your identity, and your inheritance in Christ. We’ll explore what Scripture says about our adoption into God's family — how it’s not only a change of legal status, but a declaration of love.
Key Scriptures:
Romans 8:15
Galatians 4:4–7
Ephesians 1:5
John 1:12
Legal Disclaimer:I am an attorney, but I am not your attorney. The legal content in this episode is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice or establish an attorney-client relationship.
Listen now to be reminded that you are chosen, loved, and never alone.
For more information about PURPOSE Law Firm please visit our website at https://purpose-lawfirm.com
For more information about PURPOSE Courses please visit our website at https://purposeafterdv.com

66. Attorney Mini Series - ESTATE Planning

After the storm, you get to rebuild your life—and that includes protecting your future.
In this episode, I walk you through estate planning basics specifically for women who’ve experienced domestic violence and are starting fresh after divorce.  I also cover what to do before filing for divorce, what you can and can't do once the divorce has been filed, and what to do once your divorce is final.
Learn why estate planning is an act of empowerment, what documents you may need, and how to start building a legacy of strength for your children and future generations.
Disclaimer: I am an attorney, but I’m not your attorney. The information shared in this podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice.
For more information visit my Law Firm website at https://purpose-lawfirm.com/

65. Attorney Mini Series - Mediation and our PURSUE with PURPOSE Program

Divorce and custody don’t always have to be a battleground.
In this episode, we’re talking about mediation—what it is, when it’s helpful, and how it can provide a more peaceful path forward for women overcoming domestic violence.
I’ll also introduce you to my “PURSUE with PURPOSE” program that helps you walk in wisdom, clarity, and strength as you deal with an attorney who may not understand the dynamics of domestic violence.
Disclaimer: I am an attorney, but I’m not your attorney. The information shared in this podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice.
For more information visit my Law Firm website at https://purpose-lawfirm.com/
 

64. Attorney Mini Series - Family Law

In this powerful episode, I put on my attorney hat and speak directly to women navigating the painful realities of divorce and custody battles while overcoming domestic violence.
I walk you through the the importance of finding an attorney who understands the dynamics of domestic violence in a way that’s practical and empowering—because you deserve to know your rights and options. We’ll also discuss how to approach these situations with both wisdom and strength.
Disclaimer: I am an attorney, but I’m not your attorney. The information shared in this podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice.
For more information visit my Law Firm website at https://purpose-lawfirm.com/

63. What Does It Mean to Have POWER After DV?

In this foundational episode, we unpack the meaning behind the acronym POWER and how each letter serves as a stepping stone toward healing, wholeness, and freedom after domestic violence. From reclaiming your spiritual authority to engaging in true restoration, this episode will encourage, equip, and empower you to rise.
POWER =
P – Powerful
O – Overcoming
W – Women
E – Engaging in
R – Restoration
Reflection Question:Which letter in the POWER acronym speaks to you the most?
🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck]
All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/
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62. Reflecting on the Journey – Freedom, PURPOSE & the Power of Transformation

In this episode, Becca joins me once again to unpack the final stretch of Mara’s journey—and what it means for your story.
We dive into the last four steps of the Story Brand framework and how they paint a powerful picture of what’s possible when we stop just surviving and start stepping fully into the life God is calling us to.
Together, we reflect on:
💥 The call to action – what it really means to say yes to healing, growth, and purpose🌱 The consequences of not stepping forward—and why staying stuck isn't harmless🕊️ What success looks like when we embrace our God-given identity🦋 Mara’s complete transformation—from survivor to soaring daughter of the King🔥 The anointing to set the captives free—and why that mission matters now more than ever
Whether you’ve been with us since Episode 1 or you’re just jumping in, this conversation will remind you:
Your story isn’t over.You are not disqualified.There is still so much more ahead.
🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck]
All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/
💬 Let’s Connect:What part of Mara’s story spoke most to you? Reach out, share your takeaway, or ask a question—we’re here to walk with you.
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